ps- when bosie was alone in the hotel that night, i wonder if he called up his mother, complaining.
bosie: it's horrid! he's left me alone and went out without me! i'm bored and alone and hungry and upset!

mother: ... what time is it? bosie! it's 4am here...
bosie: but i need to talk to someone! and you're my mother! show me sympathy! right now! your son is being emotionally abused by his husband!