How do you bring up spanking in convorsation?
 

The other day me and a few friends (we're not close friends really, we're just in a play together) were sitting around and talking. I actually just entered the convorsation and they were talking about sex. You know, "which do you like better" type of thing. I didn't really take part in the convorsation, but, I really, really, wanted to bring up spanking. However, I couldn't bring myself to do it. Maybe if one of my closer friends hadn't have been there I would have got the guts to do it, but instead I just wandered away.

I know that one way to test people's interest in spanking is to casually bring it up in convorsation. Whether it be to a significant other or even with a group of friends, it could be effective to talk about it and judge people's reactions. My question to you all is: What techniques can you guys think of (either tested or untested) to get this job done?

I personally think that a good way to bring it up with a significant other is the "Birthday Spanking" approach. This one is good because it could even be made into a little joke, so that it seems inconspicuous to a non-spanko, but gets a spanko's heart racing. For example, a guy could say to his girlfriend "So do I get to give you your birthday spankings this year?" or "Today you're getting (age here) birthday kisses... or spankings, whichever you prefer." The obvious downside to this is that birthdays only come around once a year.

So what do you guys think?

Well, for me when I asked my boyfriend about it (the one that freaked) I merely asked him 'What do you think about spanking?' It's a neutral question but to the point. I find that works best although it can be awkward if people are totally against it. However, it can be even more awkward if you beat around the bush.

I've always used it to describe massive win. I started when I was playing RO and since the word pwn was drasticly overused, I started using spanked. But it works just as well in the real life, reffering to footbal, or games, or whatever. That's pretty much the only unassuming thing I have to offer.

"Your butt is cute like that. I wonder how it would look when spanked"

What? It works.

Disclaimer: Use only when already naked. Do not try this when clothed, because pick-up lines of any kind are completely idiotic and thus make you look stupid.

Ahem. Yeah, that's a topic I had no problems with.

Once I did rhythmic gymnastics with one of my best friends, and I messed up with the choreaographic. I fell down and got all tied up by the ribbon, I couln't free myself xD Well, I looked up to her and grinned and asked her if I'd deserve a spanking for that. And she laughed and said yes, and that was all ^^;

With another friend it was slightly different. We RPed together and my character captured hers, both male. And at 3 a.m. saturday morning I was tired enough not to care what she'd think about my addiction, and my character said something like "I won't kill you. I'll SPANK you" and I found out that my friend liked spanking as well ^_^

For me it's more easy to tell it right away instead of hiding it, but I think it really depends on the person o.0

I'd say just tell it straight. But if you want to casually drop it in conversation I've used Masochism or Sadism as a bridge. If you are vague enough with your comments then people will often become curious and begin asking questions. Just keep answering, the topic usually comes around if you direct the conversation in that direction. It also really helps to have a second person in the room with the same fetish to back you up.

The ppor-non spanko in this room xD Just imagine, they don't like it and are in one room with at least two spankos talking about their "hobby" :P

Another example for telling it *almost* straightly is to phone a friend who knows you're a spanko while the other friend in nearby. Just mention some spanking topic. It's a good introduction as I think ^^

This topic reminds me of this pretty funny thing that happened to me last year.

3 of my friends and I were in my neighbors dorm room just hanging out and talking about high school. We were comparing the strange people that we used to know in the school and one of the girls started trying to wierd us out by talking about some S/M kid that she used to know. She kept exaggerating and exaggerating about the story trying to get a rise out of us and what she didn't know it that everyone else in the room was either Masochistic or Sadistic! So my friends and I were sitting there saying things like "Oh man, I don't know how ANYBODY *smiles at other people* could be into that" and then we'd burst out laughing. She never got the joke and we still haven't told her why it was so funny to us.

I'm not a guy, but if you want my feelings about it, I could never bring up the subject in "polite conversation." I've only had one girl friend, in high school, with whom I could talk openly about spanking. This was mainly because she was like me and got spanked at home, and she was very upfront about it. Even then I was reticent to get into a lot of detail except to admit that my grandmother spanked me, and often on my bare bottom. Of course I talk with my guy about it now, but that's intensely personal, private and erotic.

That is why chatting online is such a wonderful cathartic. It allows me to dredge up all those feelings and experiences I've been suppressing for so long and share them with other people who have the same latent interest. It's really liberating--almost as liberating as getting a spanking itself from my one special guy!

ANYWAY, if I were to bring it up in conversation it would be a response to someone else's remark. I would wait until someone made an oblique reference to spanking or to their bottoms. If a girl were to say something about the riske things she had done, I might say "that would get ME spanked!" and see if that got a response from HER. With a guy I would act blase and say something like "well, I guess you'd turn her over your knee and give her a good spanking for something like that!" But it would always be in response to something they said that made me think they had the interest, and it would never be in a direct reference to ME. However, if someone started talking about childhood discipline, I would freely admit that my grandmother had spanked me liberally growing up. That always seems innocuous. But for many of us it was the beginning.

Same here, Ellipsis.

Sometimes I'll do simple things. Like I w3as wrestling with a couple of buddies and if i got them underneath me I'd give em a slap or two. Or I'll wrestle smaller people who love tackling me into the postion where they are over my lap and give a few swats. No exactly converstaion, but I think it could possibly work

As for conversation wise. I'll usually talk about discipline or make up a story I heard or movie I watched. And say like the hero/or bad guy got spanked a bit. Then maybe talk about that a bit.