So I received my first spanking
 

Me and my fiancèe are both into it. I asked for it and I wanted discipline. I wanted a red bottom and I wanted to experiment with how much I can take. She’s gotten it from me before. I wanted her to pull my pants down as I was bent over the bed. I saw her go for her hairbrush. She rested the brush on my bottom before she would deliver a series of swats then ask me if they hurt. I said not really and after another time, she brought out the spray alcohol. She delivered more swats and these had sting to them. She eventually stopped because she didn’t want to hurt me and my bottom was very red. It had a very slight sting to it.

So the next time she spanks me, I told her don’t stop until I say so. I very much enjoyed myself and I loved the hairbrush. I told her to use the spray again and look forward to the next session

How do you get a girlfriend who is into spanking? As far as I'm concerned it's an absolute requirement, but I can't go around asking women if they are into spanking randomly. It's a huge pain to get close enough to a woman to ask her those kinds of questions just to realize she isn't into it. I'm a socially inept nerd, I need help.

I find it rare to find people who agree with this kind of practice but I'm happy for you!

My wife is hesitant to spank me at all, even when I tell her exactly what I want and encourage not to stop too soon. She is quite submissive and it isn't in her nature to inflict pain. In the other hand she allows me to spank her quite hard if it doesn't go on for too long!

Congratulations. For 40 years I assumed I was only into giving them out but now I definitely know better.