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seastone · December 9th, 2013, 11:51 PM

Hi everyone,
Seeking some advice here.

I like to say cheeky and bratty things to coax a spanking out of my lover. Sometimes it works which reinforces my behavior. But sometimes he's not feeling it but I can't seem to stop at these times! It becomes annoying to him and I think he now sees me as a bratty or unkind person, which I really don't think I am at heart. I'm just hardwired to want a beating, so I keep trying even when all signs point to "NOT NOW".

Has anyone had a similar situation? Any advice on how to tone down the brattiness at will? I want to be able to turn it off if he's not feeling it, so I don't cause a rift in our otherwise awesome relationship.

Thanks!

December 9th, 2013, 11:51 PM	#1
seastone Probationary User seastone is offline Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 2	Trying to get a spanking - causing a rift? Hi everyone, Seeking some advice here. I like to say cheeky and bratty things to coax a spanking out of my lover. Sometimes it works which reinforces my behavior. But sometimes he's not feeling it but I can't seem to stop at these times! It becomes annoying to him and I think he now sees me as a bratty or unkind person, which I really don't think I am at heart. I'm just hardwired to want a beating, so I keep trying even when all signs point to "NOT NOW". Has anyone had a similar situation? Any advice on how to tone down the brattiness at will? I want to be able to turn it off if he's not feeling it, so I don't cause a rift in our otherwise awesome relationship. Thanks!