Yes, to me it is both a great tension reliever AND intensely erotic! My guy and I now recognize two types of spankings, the first the erotic type and the second the therapeutic. The former should be self-explanatory; it's meant for arousal before sex and is generally light and fast and tingly.
The latter occurs because I am naturally high-strung and I get too tightly wound on occasion. When that happens I can ask him for, or he can suggest, a therapy spanking for purposes of "unwinding" me. These are typically quite hard, and I need to cry. It's very mind-clearing and afterward all the fuzz is gone out of my brain and I see what is truly important and what isn't. The tears seem to literally wash away any guilt and tension feeings. Sex may or may not happen after a therapy spanking, most often not.
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I want to be good
Just not real good
And not all the time
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