Which spanking position is the most humiliating?

Originally Posted by ZSpanky

Oh sorry bout that Steve this was a personal true excpperence, not abuse in any shape or form, just how I began discovering my Dom ways at a young age is all. And in the future will refrain from discussing anything on chat that has real kids in it as I now understand It could bra get the site I now read the rules and so firth.

It is alright, I am unsure on the rules myself it is just that I have seen a thread closed once years ago for the problem of people discussing child spanking. I see you were just talking about childhood memories and such.

Just saying be careful sorry for going off topic.



ANYWAY diaper position for me is too uncomfortable for me, probably due to my size and physical fitness

[aka]

From the site rules:

Children:
In no area of this website are users allowed to talk about real children, especially with a reference to any kind of sexual fetish. There are no Children on this site and as far as this site is concerned, real children do not exist.
- Comments like "my kids" are strictly forbidden even if the "kids" being referred to are over 18. Offenders may be banned.

FYI, this can be found under the stickied subject Anime OTK rules found at the top of every subforum.

Anyway, my real life spanking experiences have been quite limited, so I can't say with any sort of certainty, but none of the positions I can think of strike me as being any more humiliating than another. The really humiliating thing for me would be if other people are watching.

Originally Posted by aka

From the site rules:



FYI, this can be found under the stickied subject Anime OTK rules found at the top of every subforum.

Anyway, my real life spanking experiences have been quite limited, so I can't say with any sort of certainty, but none of the positions I can think of strike me as being any more humiliating than another. The really humiliating thing for me would be if other people are watching.

Thanks Aka for enlightening us with the rules, I was actually unsure of them myself But I was pretty sure it was an illegal action.

ANYWAY I have never been spanked irl really either except when I went to collage when I was 21 years old, I was teasing a friend of mine by trying to steal a hat jokingly. this person swatted me once on my butt. That was embarrassing yes, but then you have to ask how embarrassed would I have been if this person somehow got me across their knee swatted me in that position.

[aka]

Originally Posted by Mrsteve

ANYWAY I have never been spanked irl really either except when I went to collage when I was 21 years old, I was teasing a friend of mine by trying to steal a hat jokingly. this person swatted me once on my butt. That was embarrassing yes, but then you have to ask how embarrassed would I have been if this person somehow got me across their knee swatted me in that position.

When I was thinking positions, I was thinking "all else being equal." So, if that person grabbed your arm and spanked you twenty times vs. putting you over their knee and spanked you twenty times vs. bent you over a desk and spanked you twenty times. Though I would agree that some positions are more humiliating than others, for me at least, there isn't really a unique most humiliating position. So being spanked OTK is more humiliating than just getting spanked standing up, but I feel like an OTK wouldn't be more humiliating than being bent over a desk.

Originally Posted by aka

When I was thinking positions, I was thinking "all else being equal." So, if that person grabbed your arm and spanked you twenty times vs. putting you over their knee and spanked you twenty times vs. bent you over a desk and spanked you twenty times. Though I would agree that some positions are more humiliating than others, for me at least, there isn't really a unique most humiliating position. So being spanked OTK is more humiliating than just getting spanked standing up, but I feel like an OTK wouldn't be more humiliating than being bent over a desk.

bent over a desk? Really? Why do you find that position more humiliating?

I mean otk is the classic spanking position, pretty close body contact etc. I suppose it depends on the situation if you were FORCED over the desk maybe in some kind of roleplay it would be more humiliating compared to willfully going over someones knee.

I think honorable spanking position

One leg on a stool over 1 knee position, obviously for a a more petite spankee or superstrong spanker

[aka]

I didn't say bent over a desk was more humiliating than OTK. I said I don't feel like there's much of a difference. Either way, you're either submitting to, or being "forced" as part of a roleplay into it. To me, any humiliation factor would come from the fact that someone's swatting my potentially bare bottom, maybe hard enough to make me squirm and yelp, while potentially scolding me.

For me, I feel like exposing my bottom to someone else, being spanked hard enough to show significant reaction, and/or being scolded would all be so much more humiliating than the position, that for me the position wouldn't really matter from a humiliation perspective.

Of course, I personally prefer positions with lots of bodily contact, like OTK, but that has nothing to do with humiliation. That has more to do with the intimacy and the added thrill of close physical contact.

guess down to preference in spanking I guess

[2old4that]

Mommy has a broom stick that is almost 2m long. She puts it on a straight backed chair where the back and the seat meet. Then she sits down. I must sit, staddling her legs. She spreads her legs nd pushes me forward until my face is on the floor and my legs are caught under the broomstick. My cheeks are spread wide. She usually takes my temperature at this point. If I have no fever, I am spanked with her hairbrush on my heiny and my crack. Sometimes I get a piece of ginger inserted in my rectum before being sent to the corner to "think about what a naughty boy I have been".

[daddysdragon]

I think diaper position
Ugh i hate it

[La Fay]

it all depends on the one being spanked, i personally find the standing, touching your toes with your legs spread to be the most humiliating, it puts everything on display, but maybe some like that.
OTK- is more about intimacy which, which is best for lovers (my girls fav )
my personal favorite for discipline purposes would be, lying on the bed with a pillow below their waste, it provides a good target , its humiliating and also allows for a better view and reach for the spanker,
and is more comfortable for the spankee, at least that how my girl put it.