Disappointing Spankings

[hankiespankie]

A reply on my "recent spankings" thread got me to thinking, have you have ever had a disappointing spanking? One that left you feeling let down? I have been spanked by a couple of people who had no idea how to spank, and didn't hit hard at all, just like being swatted by a, well, something that doesn't hurt that much (should have thought that through really!)

I have also spanked one guy who screamed and wailed even though it was a light smack. it's really disheartening.

Did you want the spanking to be harder, did you want the scene to be more real? in what way was it a let-down?

[Mushy]

Hrm...almost all my spankings have been disappointing. D: It's made me nervous to try it since with my boyfriend now. D: When he's threatening me over the phone or something, it's not quite enough. He's not ready yet. XD *is thinking maybe I should take a spanking from a girl and see how that goes*

Um, there was one guy I tried it with, but he would do it and call me a freak, and he thought I was strange and going to hurt myself. It was pretty fucked up.

The next time, the guy gave me a swat and he's threatened to give me worse because he's gotten more into it. When he gave me the swat, I wasn't expecting it but he knew I liked it. That was exciting, but he was new to it.

Um, the next guy...was going to do a lot more but with the lack of furniture in the apartment, you bet there was quite an echo. >.<;

So yeah...I need something more. Someone who can tolerate that I won't bawl (I'm one of those stubborn types, and I'll probably get watery eyed but never actually cry, and I'll still look defiant no matter how my bottom stings). I need someone who can be somewhat harsh, but not pretending. Just calm, collected, firm, and no-nonsense.

It'd BE FUUUUN.