Poll: Our excuses for spankings.

[InSolitude]

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[ellipsis39]

My guy used to make up really flimsy (and funny) excuses why I needed to be spanked. Like flirting with our mailman. Now, our mailman may have been a nice guy but he was as ugly as a mud fence!

Or there was getting my lipstick on crooked. What woman does THAT unless she's 90 years old?

He still comes up with some cute excuses from time to time but usually he just cocks his eyebrow that certain way he has and sets his jaw, and I know what he's thinking, and that very soon I'll be examining rug patterns.

Of course, it's erotic to both of us, and foreplay before sex.

[Hefin]

I'd say a combination of the two.

[Mushy]

Well, I really like pleasure, teasing, and crack spankings! But that's if I'm enjoying them in a picture. I love like, the stupidest excuses, where the spanker and spankee are totally joking around, or teasing one another, or just doing it out of simple pleasure. It makes something that I took serious for so many years because it was my fetish seem, simply put, more fun.

But punishment spankings will always hold a special place for me directly. I tend to like some mild ageplay, where I'm a preteen or young teen most of the time, and being punished for various transgressions. I don't really feel the high of a spanking unless I think I'm into trouble and I start to build up that, "I'm in for it!" kind of feeling. That's part of the roller coaster ride for me, thinking I've been caught and building up that worry about the upcoming spanking. Who knew such a stressful thing, when acted out between consensual partners, could be meditative and satisfactory? XD

[RobM]

I put down 'Pleasure' but mine arn't really erotic spankings, exactly.

I just prefered that to punishment because any punishment aspect to a spanking I give are only a joke and anything really hard is usually rp'd. Excuses are all they are, really.
And if the spankee didn't enjoy it, I'd HATE the spanking myself. Therefore, it must be for mutual benefit.

[ARTSY]

I put punishment because I like the feeling of relieving the guilt of the spankee. Though i tend to like spankings done out sid ethe family. Like a boy breaks into a house i=and is spanked by the guy who lives there thing. Though pleasure is fun like when you you play spanking games.

[Spankofox]

I put pleasure because -- although most of the spankings that I'm involved in are some sort of "punishment" as opposed to erotic -- the spanking is actually benificial for both the spanker and the spankee despite being called a punishment. In the end, you've both got the fetish.

[Frame_J]

Altough punishment also fits with me, I guess my opinion falls on the third one.

In my stories I always give the victims spankings they really don't deserve... the spanker is portrayed as evil. That way I can have both the spanking scnene and yet, having the spankee be the winner at the end as he takes revenge on the spanker.

[Macha]

Pleasure, no contest.

[Pirate L]

Well, I guess I like spanking, so it's going to be pleasure either way. But I like the punishment scenarios best. Seeing and rp'ing cutesy & lovey dovey type spankings are ok, but not what really gets me.