Who knows?

[profken]

This is a question for those who get spanked.

Who knows you get spanked? How did they find out? How does it make you feel? Are you embarrassed? Excited by the fact that they know? Both??

Has anyone seen you get spanked?

If no one knows, would you like someone to know? Why or why not?

[ellipsis39]

I was spanked as a little girl growing up, by my grandmother who raised me. The only one I confided in then was my best friend, who also came from spanking parents (mostly her dad). Others might have guessed, particularly if they saw my tush the next day in gym class, but she was my only confidant. Nobody ever saw any of my punishments except my grandmother.

I was a tease, so I was spanked by several boys during my teen years and I knew I liked it then, but I told nobody, not even my childhood girlfriend, although I hinted at it with her. She was equally coy about her boyfriend at that time. At that age I would have been terminally embarrassed to talk about it! I met my future husband when I was nineteen (he was 25) and quickly found him very much a dominant spanker. Funny how I lucked out that way--maybe pheromones or something.

Anyway, since I was nineteen he's been the only one to spank me. Nobody else knows, and certainly nobody ever witnessed any of them--it's erotic to both of us, and usually confined to the boudoir. I suspect a lot more women than admit it get spanked in their boudoirs as part of their sex lives, although probably not as often as I do! I'm guessing that I've probably been spanked 200 times over the past 17 years, and the vast majority of them led directly to sex.

I've also had a couple of periods of depression and some lengthy therapy and I never told the therapist either. I actually think now that some good hard spankings from my guy at the time would have done me a lot more good than the therapy, but that's another story.

I probably couldn't ever confide in anybody other than my girlhood friend even now. However now that I'm older and have had my share of life experiences, I could be a lot more open with her than we were as teenagers, when I had an intense fear of being considered 'weird.' Turns out I'm actually pretty normal after all.

[Brigitta Coral]

As a child, I was spanked a lot and plenty of people knew.

As an adult, I've told only two people, both were people I was sleeping with and, as it turned out, neither of them were into spanking, but were willing to indulge me--one slightly, the other several times throughout our marriage (and I expect, will continue to).

I really, really wouldn't want anyone else to know. (Well, OK, you guys here know, but we're pretty anonymous and I would have no clue if I ran into you in the streets.) I have not even told my best friends, nor do I plan to.

Would I be embarrassed? That's hard to answer. No more than I would be embarrassed about them finding out anything else about my sex life. I wouldn't like it and would feel slightly invaded.

[Dante-hand]

My dad was looking at my computer today and looking through my history to find something he was working on yesterday. He saw my history for spankingtube. He laughed and pestered me a bit but seemed understanding so long as I was into spanking girls not guys, He is not against gays or anything he just didnt want more ammo to annoy me with.

[Suihanki]

My best friends, my massage therapist, and both of my parents know I'm a spanko. =3

[Dante-hand]

Your massage therapist? How did your parents find out?

[greyrain]

Well let's see. 5 people. My girlfriend (obviously), my brother, two of my friends, and a person I worked with (not really sure why I told her I think it's because I inadvertently learned about her sexual proclivities). Out of the five I only wanted one to know.

My one friend found out because he snooped around on my computer but he was into it too so I wasn't traumatized thankfully and he told another friend of mine accidentally because he thought it was common knowledge amongst my friends. But that friend was cool about it too.

My brother found out about it in an amusing way and he doesn't understand but sort of has that "whatever gets you off" kind of attitude.

In all honesty I feel better that people I care about know. Because I felt like I had this dirty secret I was dragging around for years and now that it's out in the open I'm a lot more relaxed. Although I don't plan on letting anyone else know. I figure 5 is enough.

[Suihanki]

I forgot to mention the obvious person... my fiance, Wunderkind! ^^

Originally Posted by Dante-hand

Your massage therapist? How did your parents find out?

Yes, my massage therapist. I have a genetic disease and she helps me maintain it. She's been my massage therapist for over two years. She may be a lot older than me but she's also one of my best friends.

As for my parents. I told my mom a year and a half ago because I needed someone to talk to about it, and I trust her. She had no problem with it at all and it was good to have someone to talk to about it... I didn't have many people to talk to about it back then. My dad found out by himself a few months ago. He was working on my desktop computer and went to download a virus program. Unfortunately I had not emptied my download cue. I walked in and right above his download it said "Spanking preview" along with a few other spanking videos. The color drained out of my face and I left the room and almost puked. Haha. He has no problem with it, though. My parents are generally open minded people for the most part.

Ai and Yuki visited my house in June and both my parents know where I met them... they even know that Ai runs AOTK and they still absolutely adored them. =]

[Dante-hand]

Lucky! ^^ Good to hear

[mybb]

there is probably about a dozen or so people who know because they have spanked me and I know they have told others. Several people have seen me being spanked when I belonged to a club. A couple people have let me know in one way or another that they know. It is embarrassing , scary and exciting. Secretly I wish the ones that know give me a choice where they spank me or they show/tell as there are a few pictures out there