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**pierre1949** · December 23rd, 2009, 11:47 PM

I would like to know how you can find a spanker, I am looking for it since a long time but cant find any, may be you can advise me how to manage this matter. Tank you

**RobM** · December 23rd, 2009, 11:50 PM

Go to a fetish personals site - which this isn't.

Google 'em and good luck~

**yarlson** · December 24th, 2009, 02:21 AM

Watch out for "free" meeting sites such as Kijiji (straight) and Alt.com (kinky) which are populated almost entirely, or entirely, by professionals. I have been led around for weeks by these idiots, promising to meet, asking for more info, and then finally dropping a rate card on me. Just venting, it must be all those burritos.

**null55** · December 29th, 2009, 09:56 PM

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**pierre1949** · December 30th, 2009, 01:35 AM

it is very difficult to say how hard, the last time i got one i was about 12 and then no more, since then i always phantasmed about it but the pain factor probably faded and i find hard even impossible to explain to any of my friend, girl or boy this kind of desire. The contact you get trough the net looks corrupted by a lot of professional and almost impossible to materialise. But i think a spanking must involve some level of pain. Have you ever experience it as a grown one?

**Hellball** · December 30th, 2009, 04:06 AM

Go on lots of dates. Before spanking comes into play, you need to make sure this is a person you want to be intimate with at all. When things start getting hot and heavy, tell him/her what you want, and see how s/he reacts. If its not going to work, on to the next fish.

**Ruby_thunder** · December 30th, 2009, 04:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Hellball

Go on lots of dates. Before spanking comes into play, you need to make sure this is a person you want to be intimate with at all. When things start getting hot and heavy, tell him/her what you want, and see how s/he reacts. If its not going to work, on to the next fish.

Hellball said it best. I would add to that, by get them some time to warm up the idea after you pop that in conversation . They might reacts negative to it first , but later they might change their mind to the idea. Any good luck

**Brigitta Coral** · January 12th, 2010, 07:23 AM

Sometimes it can take someone a long time to warm up to the idea of spanking. If it isn't their fetish, it might be something very difficult for them to get into. This is where I've found sites like this to be wonderfully helpful. I go through the gallery and show my husband pictures that he might like (particular looks I know he finds sexy, long hair, attractive breasts, etc.) that also have the spanking element in them. It helps to warm things up and plant ideas in his head.

Will he ever be a spanking fetishist the way I am? No, absolutely not. However, because he loves me and wants to satisfy me, he'll indulge me. And given the choice, I'll take the 17 years of incredible marriage we have had thus far and the intermittent spankings over being with someone else whose only plus is that they love to spank as much as I love to be spanked.

KingTamaki · January 16th, 2010, 07:50 PM

I'd say just go on some dates and hint at what you're looking for lol
There's a lot of closeted spanking fans out there.

**Izumi** · January 17th, 2010, 02:08 AM

be naughty enuogh that the person just gives in and gives you what you deserve mind you that probobly only works for disipline spanking