As always, I'll take a different tack. I'll say I prefer playful spankings, but that doesn't preclude intensity. The trouble with the whole "playful vs punishment" concept is that it dumps you into a "light" and thereby playful, or a "serious/no-nonsense" punishment spanking.
I'm not adverse to giving out the intensity of the punishment spanking, but I don't want to deal with the psychological expectations of disciplining for actual wrong-doing.
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