Are all girls spankee's?

[hellzblade]

Now in my experience so far in life (almost 21 years) Every single girl that i have ever dated (far to many for my own good) have enjoyed being spanked. Is it just the fact that girls are willing to do whatever there partner wants to make them happy? Or is it something deeper in that all girls have a primal urge and need to be spanked?
It should be noted that all of the girls i have spanked started with light spanking then started really really getting into it and all became spanko's in the sense that they loved being spanked?

What is everyone else's opinion on this matter?

[Macha]

My opinion on your posting can be summed up with "Facepalm".

[RobM]

What is everyone else's opinion on this matter?

That you're wrong and have a slightly skewed outlook from only dating late teenagers. ^_^

Well... *Scratches head* I havn't dated a vanilla girl in a long time admittedly, but from what I remember, they're not ALL spankee's. There's also a girl I know aware of my fetish who has zippo interest in it.

Of course, lotsa people can be persuaded to do things for boyfriends and if it's only light then it can be quite pleasureable and the afterglow can be quite pleasant.

Just so long as this thread doesn't go off on some tangent about whether people should spank girls (Or pressure them into it: Thats a Big No-no).

Bear in mind, there will be quite a few dominant girls posting on this thread to explain that in reality, all BOYS are spankee's and they've never met a boyfriend yet they havn't coaxed over their knees.
Go ahead and let him have it, ladies~

[XiaolinLilith]

YARR!! *Jumps in after Rob's post, ufufufu* Macha is absolutely right, you can't lump everyone into the same group...and I've known I was dominant since I've had a boyfriend (three years)! And yes, I realize that some girls are willing to do anything for their partners...my friends, for example.

BUT I think it's more fun to spank boys, honestly. XD *Runs off to avoid rotten tomatoes to the face*

[hellzblade]

Well RobM i've actually dated some older women recently (well not older just older than me 24 and 26 and a certain experience with a 37 year old but i wont go there) And for the most part i go out of my way to get non vanilla girls because they piss me off. But aside from that it always starts light and then within a few short weeks they asking for hard spankings.
I also think it is wrong to pressure anyone male or female into anything!

To the dominant girls you promised will be comming...before you chew me up I have been with switch girls and have taken many a hard spankings myself. But in my experience I have not met a fully Dom girl who will not take a spanking at some point.

[zae]

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I think you have simply dated more than your share of spankee girls and need to SHARE THE WEALTH.

Er, I mean, you've just been on the lucky side of the laws of probability. There are plenty who don't like it and won't go along with it, pleasing their partner or otherwise.

[RobM]

Originally Posted by hellzblade

Well RobM i've actually dated some older women recently (well not older just older than me 24 and 26 and a certain experience with a 37 year old but i wont go there),

A 'certain' experiance? What, you met her in the scene and she turned out to be a spankee?
Duh.
Unless she's your boss or you just happened to share an umbrella with her outside a new-york resteraunt or some other hollywood hugh grant style RomCom. Perhaps its my limited viewpoint I can only imagine you met with a 37 year old because she's a spankee, no?
CONFESSION!

Originally Posted by hellzblade

To the dominant girls you promised will be comming...before you chew me up I have been with switch girls and have taken many a hard spankings myself. But in my experience I have not met a fully Dom girl who will not take a spanking at some point.

Well one's already posted on this thread to facepalm and say your wrong, another switch girl has already posted to facepalm and withhold comment - probably because she thinks the topic is moronic - and one Dom male and another switch male have posted to facepalm and say that your wrong... take your pick or just ignore it and say you're still waiting ^_^
Seriously though the afterglow is pleasant and there's no reason why many vanilla people wouldn't want it once in a while - but not all!
It all comes down if anything to your definition of spankee~

To me, spankee is a state of mind, deeper in the BDSM scene it gets replaced by the term 'sub' and you definately have to be born one of them as being collared has little attraction for vanilla girls - trust me on this at least.
You're never going to convince me that ALL girls are willing spankees. I know a few top females (not all that many, it's not my persuasion so I don't often meet them) who'd consider being spanked by anyone - much less a guy - to be a form of rape. I'm not a switch, I rarely do it and I'd never do it for a hard spanking so I can empathise in part with that view.

My final words, if you want to meet some Dom girls, I suggest not putting up such an awful facepalm thread name. Fact is, I'm certain a LOT of Dom girls would take one look at the thread title and roll their eyes - facepalm again - then keep on looking past it to the next thread.
Some of us may live in tolerant societies or have a tolerant mindset, but most FemDomers that I've met in the real world skip right past the Maledom stuff,
unless like Macha and I you are someone who's always up for a fight, you tend to filter.

[PEACEandLOVE]

*taps head* In here they are. But in the real world? Hellz no, not even close, your just some guy who fate has decided to be nice to. Honestly, man, there are plenty of girls who completely hate the idea of being spanked, your jus one of the lucky bastards who hasn't run into one.

[thorkity]

I believe in equal exchange. I'm what we in the fetish community call a switch.

[Macha]

I have not met a fully Dom girl who will not take a spanking at some point

They probably are avoiding you like the bubonic plague.


Mean? me? Cannot be.