Asked my new new gf to spank me f/m

[Use]

Has anyone else asked and tried this? (known for 3 months) I spanked her when we were feeling super romantic but she said it hurt too much and got off. She seems neutral to the idea of spanking. I'm flexible so asked to be spanked next time but worried itll be weird. Think I would wear tidies as well but not sure about it, also thinking of wearing tighty whities but unsure. Any advice from people who have had success or attempts before? I really like this girl and am not sure how this should go if it would be bad. As a guy I usually initiate but she is very open minded and usually wants sex but isn't much of a butt grabber. Just not sure overall if she said yes just to be nice or has some level of interest. (When I asked her to punish me she said "You just want to be spanked") which says alot of neutrality.

edit: shes also older and more organized than me, which is a plus. She takes the lead on many things, but its more like 60%/40%. That's why I really like her

[vokoko]

That’s definitely an interesting situation! It sounds like she’s open-minded but maybe just unsure or inexperienced in that area. Communication is everything—sometimes it just takes time for someone to feel comfortable exploring new dynamics. Maybe framing it as something fun and lighthearted rather than a big deal could help her ease into it. If she already takes the lead in other ways, she might surprise you once she gets more comfortable!

[borovfrisss]

Communication is key—sometimes framing things in a playful, no-pressure way can help ease into new experiences. If she already takes the lead in certain ways, she might warm up to it once she feels more comfortable and sees how much you enjoy it.