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**spankmiky** · January 25th, 2009, 01:59 AM

well have you tried getting involved with the site like making freinds and rp'ing cause if you do that I think It might still help...it's hard to beleive that this site doesn't help you anymore, it's great.

**spankmiky** · January 25th, 2009, 02:07 PM

Ok do NOT post messages about offline spanking meetings please...thanks.

**Poesdaughter** · January 25th, 2009, 11:34 PM

Hmmm, when there's no way to do it in real life?

I vent my frustrations on stories I write or I RP. Sometimes, I might look up fanfiction but that normally turns into a horrible experiance because I can't find something that I feel is 'good enough'.

**Mushy** · January 26th, 2009, 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Poesdaughter

Hmmm, when there's no way to do it in real life?

I vent my frustrations on stories I write or I RP. Sometimes, I might look up fanfiction but that normally turns into a horrible experiance because I can't find something that I feel is 'good enough'.

I'm a lot like that myself, but I think it's more of the fact that nothing is satiable enough to satisfy my lack of real-life spankings. I tend to write a lot, and it ends up being junk, but for me it's a good outlet. Sometimes I draw as well, but that usually turns out a bust. xD

**Karnacht av Visp** · January 26th, 2009, 05:23 AM

There's plenty of so called amatuer spanking videos out there, but they seem horribly rehearsed and that takes away from it. Sometimes I can pop in Godhand on the PS2. There's lots of spanking in that game depending on how it's played.

I myself have been on both sides of spankings numerous times in my adult life. I can tell you from firsthand experience that recieving a true, honest to goodness spanking will completely realign one's perception of life. To sum things up, there's nothing quite like the real thing.

January 26th, 2009, 06:13 PM

If you say it. I never give of receive spanking, but I hope that, one day, I can encounter someone who have also this fetish.

**AlexGragar** · January 27th, 2009, 06:37 AM

i've been a spanker once or twice in a relationship, but my partners never really have been into it. i think id like to try to experiment with it a little, although i like the female backside marginally more than i actually like spanking it. my artwork gets that that urge out of the way nine times out of ten.

but i would like to try it.

-a.g.

**Lady_Tsunade_Senjou** · January 28th, 2009, 12:07 AM

Ya know I have had a subbie in RL and I would love one again but I am in a relationship so it would just be what it is-- if you know what i mean. Kouga and I kinda wanna 'adopt' a subbie for a mommy daddy type play and I want a sweet little girl I can dress up as Ayame (from Inuyasha) or a lil boy who can be Inuyasha..

But nothing-- NOTHING compares tot he real thing.

**nightbladered** · January 29th, 2009, 03:59 PM

Well when my g/f is around and not away at school thats not a problem for either of us because we spank each other(I mostly spank her but every once in a while we switch) whenever the urge strikes(which seems to be a lot). There are a couple of other people that we know that are also into spankings and that we have spanked/been spanked by. Sadly none of those people can meet us more then a couple of times a year.

When shes away(like she is at the moment) I handle it by going online and rping or watching spanking videos online and putting myself in the place of the spanker or the spankee depending on how I feel.

I rp with some people on yahoo, and I do some rps here and they help(I find the yahoo ones help more for some reason) with the urges, but nothing compares to the real thing.

The only thing that comes close(no offense to the people that I rp with, most of you are very good at it) is when I am able to chat with my g/f online and we can do a spanking/sex rp. I think the reason that doing it with her helps is that we have done it in rl so many times I have perfect images in my head as we rp.

**hellzblade** · February 9th, 2009, 09:25 AM

I don't think anything really helps if you find a good spanking porn you can kind of help it go away. Working out really helps take your mind away from that.
But really the best way is to hook up on a spanking dating site and get stared.
Once you've been spanked once the urge will never go away till you get spanked gain.

And tip for the guys "most" girls will take at least a bit of a fun spanking and you can slowly progress till she is a spankaholic. But many of the women i know and have gone out with or played with will not spank me. And because i am a natural dom even the chicks that will spank me will only do it when i am tired or sore or somehow not my normal self. Men have it rough.