What Makes you Interested in Spanking?

[aka]

Honestly, I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that I am freakishly obsessed with the female bottom. Breasts are ok, I guess, so long as they're not all that big. Genitalia (male and female) are ugly as sin. But a nice, firm, shapely female bottom is the most beautiful thing on this earth. Then you throw in the way the bottom ripples when you smack it and the girl squirms...yeah. Anyway, with the possible exception of wedgies (wedgies don't really interest me, so I've never explored them enough to make an informed judgement), there is not a single fetish on this earth that puts as much emphasis on the bottom as spanking. Incidentally, I think that's also why I love seeing a girl get spanked in a thong. Covers up all the ugly parts (vagina, anus), but leaves those gorgeous cheeks fully exposed and ready for a good smacking.

[Dave_Mire]

I agree with everything AKA just said (typed).

[virginia]

I was spanked at home and in school. Nada

When I was 14 I found a woman who would tutor me in trade for chores and babysitting. Somehow we clicked, even though she spanked.

[KathyKane]

The sensation is lovely, painful, but in a warm, sincere manner. The release of control, or in the spanker's case the taking of control, is fulfilling. The arousal is immediate, the shame/embarrassment fun as a naughty dare.

The expectation and/or giddiness that builds up to a spanking is lovely, the memories of the spanking even more so.

I guess I'm not the best at answering the question except in abstract concepts such as these, but to me its one of the loveliest, naughtiest, frank expressions of physical expression we're capable of...then again I've always been a weird one.

[Rockstar]

Honestly, my sister let me watch MTV with her back in the 80s when I was really young. I got hooked on men in leather and with long hair.. then it grew into a facination with S&M and got darker and kinkier the older I got

[KathyKane]

Would that be before or after MTV's liquid television phase Rockstar? Because I have to say Aeon Flux made me look at S&M in a much more positive light then i had before...

For me it all started after stumbling on some spanking art and spanking RP. I've never actually spanked or been spanked though. It'd be a cool experience, but I'm not sure how to turn it into a reality.

[charles wilbourn]

Well, I haven't told this to everybody, but when I was much younger, maybe 14 or 15, I had been interested in spanking for several years, but there always had to be a reason for it. when I was 14--rather a long time ago--I decided that doing naughty things without being spanked for would be really exciting. So one fall night, while everyone else had left my house, i ran across the fence to my neighbors' backyard and broke a window--big deal, right? but for a young boy like me that people generally considered "not naughty" it was a big turn on. In fact I went as far as orgasm immediately afterward. This kind of activity took place sporadically until I was 17. I never did anything serious or hurt anybody. But just "being naughty" for its own sake is not enough, and i guess at the time I did occasional bad things I am certain, well, almost, that I wanted to get caught and spanked on the bare preferably by the person or persons against whom I misbehaved. Yes, secretly, even secret to myself, I wanted to get caught and spanked, maybe "in the raw." However, nothing came of it. The farthest-reaching of my naughty acts was that I started smoking at 17, and have been hopelessly hooked ever since.

As far as my interest in spanking goes, well that has been perennial and I don't know whence it stems, since I wasn't considered a particularly "bad boy" then and was well-behaved at school--generally always was--except that I liked to play sick all the time, and even play hooky. At the time I did it I didn't think this was particularly naughty enough behavior to warrant spanking, though now I do and maybe subconsciously I felt guilty for it and needed to be punished--spanked--for it, so maybe that is where my interest stems. However, there were two occasions when I played hooky , when I was 9, when I knew I was being being bad. The first time I decided not to go to school but to the corner market and buy a pack of cigarettes, saying they were for my mom, and spent the day smoking them in an abandoned house near my home. The cigarettes were gone by 3:30, when school let out, so I went home. When I got home mt mom greeted me as usual so I thought I was in the clear, but the office secretary, who was accustomed to calls from my mom when I wouldn't be in school on a given day, gave a sealed note from her to mom to be delivered by my sister unread--if she had read it she would never have given it to her and would have warned me. So suspecting nothing she gave the note to mom, and she read it--I didn't know anything about this till the next morning when she woke me up roughly, pulled me out of bed, and said "I've got something for you to read after we're through." I was silent, but barely awake, even after she pulled me out of bed, to notice she carried a small wooden paddle; she sat on the side of the bed, pulled off my briefs, turned me over her knee and gave me the hardest paddling--whipping of any kind--that I had gotten. I screamed, yelled, pleaded, cried, all that, but the paddling went on 15 minutes. I didn't play hooky for years after that. The second time she spanked me was when I was playin sick. She wanted to take my temperature but I would have none of it. She persisted in trying to stick the thermometer in my mouth, I got tired of it, took the thermometer out of her hand and threw it against the wall breaking it. I was in bed at the time; again she yanked me out of it, pulled off my briefs and smacked me many, many times on the bare with her hand; it hurt almost as much as the paddling did. Then she dressed me and took me to my homeroom herself. As the school's punishment I had to stay after school, and my homeroom teacher paddled me very effectively, considering I was wearing jeans. Still, after that I continued to play sick, often, and often stayed home.

I'm sorry I'm being so long winded. I agree with what several people have said, that spanking is the highest form of erotic pleasure. However, not spanking for its own sake. There's gotta be a reason. For me, maybe I reached erotic climax when my mom spanked me and when my homeroom teacher spanked me as a form of defense-mechanism--turning pain into pleasure. Maybe subconsciously I saw the whipps as the nayural outcome of being naughty, and felt certain that I deserved them. Somehow, mysteriously, being bad turned me on, but then even more so did being spanked. All the concomitant things--shame, embarrassment at being seen at least partially naked, turn me on as being part of the punishment. And, on a related note, I'm turned on by bondage, but spanking has to be involved, and being bound naked is a big turn on for me. But I ve never been bound--WAY too scared! Wicked things can happen. . . . but for fantasies it's fine. I prefer in my imagination to be spanked by women or girls--I guess it's maybe a natural turn-on for young males to be seen naked--effectively--by women--good looking--and pretty girls, but for me this would never be unaccompanied by shame. That's all!
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[Akumi Alice]

For me it seems to have sprung out of nowhere. When I was maybe 4 or 5 I read a children's story where the main character was spanked (in a non sexual manner, of course), and I immediately felt a strange, thrilling sensation to the words, and sought out spanking scenarios ever since. The same with seeing diaper commercials and packages. This happened so early in childhood that I'm inclined to believe that the fetish is deeply rooted in some of our minds!

[jade56]

When I was young my mom spanked me alot. I really like thing that involved humiliation i enjoy a humiliating spanking