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**Hawke** · May 26th, 2008, 06:04 AM

She has a need to be spanked. She needs it to be someone she can trust.

**ellipsis39** · May 26th, 2008, 04:37 PM

It sounds like Hawk proceeded without the advice and consent of the rest of us!

Plus it sounds like what in my case I would call a therapeutic spanking, one intended to unwind me from my stresses. About twice a year or so I seem to get wound up too tightly just from the tensions of being a wife and mom and modern day housewife, and on those occasions I ask my guy for a good therapeutic spanking. These have to hurt, and I have to cry, and therein lies the catharsis. All the fuzz and static in my brain floods out of me and I get my head back on straight as to what things in my life are really important. Hawk's cousin sounds very much like me.

**Hawke** · May 27th, 2008, 04:47 PM

You are probably right about everything, ellipsis.

~~brokenvalve~~ · May 29th, 2008, 12:23 AM

As I said, she is looking for stability.

Waker-of-the-Winds · June 4th, 2008, 06:58 AM

Not that my opinion matters (although I guess you are asking for opinions), but this is what I think. Different people get different things out of spanking. It's been mentioned that your cousin is just seeking discipline and stability, and that's great. However, if either of you, even if it's just one of you, feels anything sexual at all I'd say to call it off.

**Smackdat** · January 19th, 2009, 09:23 PM

Although you may not really be looking for oppinions anymore, I wanted some input on this. I would deffinatly say that spanking is amazing as therapy. I myself brought my girlfriend back from the edge of suicide with it. So if she asks for one, or needs one, I say spank her.

**Hawke** · January 24th, 2009, 12:06 AM

I agree, it is good therapy for cetain people. It looks as if she will need a spanking once or twice a month.

**Mumrik** · April 27th, 2009, 04:31 PM

Haha, funny:-D
Of cause you should spank her again;-) But maybe you shouldn't tell your parents and her parents about your little game.

**Hawke** · April 29th, 2009, 06:05 AM

She is still getting spanked, once or twice a month, the family is not involved, just as you suggested, however a couple of her friends know it and her room mate, another girl, has been present a couple of times when she has been spanked. She wasn't adverse to it either. Maybe that is why my cousin picked her for a room mate.

**ellipsis39** · May 1st, 2009, 04:44 PM

In theory you are correct. And he was the son of my father's first cousin, so I guess he was a second cousin. But at the time I did not differentiate. He was family.