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**Furniture** · April 20th, 2025, 04:22 PM

Hello everyone, this is my first thread ever. I hope this is the right spot to ask for some spanking advice. A heads up this may be a bit TMI, in the interests of getting answers!

How does everyone feel about reaching tears during a spanking? Any advice on "getting there"?

There's a lot of great art where the spankee is in tears during their session that I enjoy, which became a bit of a masochistic dream for me.

I only really get a good sob in after a good therapy spanking, and that's usually from the emotional relief.

Is there something really obvious I'm missing here? I was wondering if it's that there needs to be more of an emotional pull, instead of trying brute force. We've tried a mix of more scoldings, more impliments and gotten pretty close! It's really not for lack of trying, and my partner is truly an angel for trying to get this little fantasy to happen.

If there's any advice from tops/bottoms alike, this would be the place to ask and if you're able to share anything, that'd be amaaazing!

**snakesmanchester** · April 23rd, 2025, 03:56 AM

im sorry, i cry like a baby regardless, i have very low pain tolerance :3 ... although maybe a distinction between dull and sharp pain would help! a paddling or hand spanking hurts, but a cane, switch, or strap... if done hard enough, friggin blubbering, man.

not sure if this will help, especially since im such a crybaby sub anyway :P

**Furniture** · April 23rd, 2025, 03:56 PM

I'm soooo jealous!! Teach me your ways! xD I didn't really think I had a high pain tolerance but talking to other spankees it seems that way. I also want to blubber LOL.

I love your idea of mixing up the sensations, and it might be just the ticket! *making notes* TYTY

**snakesmanchester** · April 25th, 2025, 03:13 PM

yea, no problem! glad I could help a lil bit

OwO nya · May 3rd, 2025, 06:15 PM

From my experience, reaching tears is more about my mental space then how hard the spanking is >.>
I would say that with proper warm up, I have relatively high pain tolerance (It is an curse, it makes finding a good spanker much harder then it sounds ;-; .

But, with the right amount of scolding, and high intensity (not necessarily a lot of pain, just the smacks have to be fast paced so the don't allow me any breathing room) I can tear up right away!

I hope this helps ^w^