Which spanking position is the most humiliating?

[yarlson]

I never thought of the nausea thing. How about the spanker sitting on the spankee ? But depending on relative sizes, be careful not to crush your partner. You know, same positions as for over the knee, but the spankee is below the legs instead of across. I know another way to do this but the spankee must be quite flexible.

[Aluzrin]

I agree with the Diaper position being the most humilitating position

[Blackdragon-sama]

i don't know what it's called, but i think a quite humiliating position is with the spanker sitting and the spankee with his/her arms and head down, resting at the spankers feet, while having her/his legs spread to either side of the spankers waist

(i *think* it's called bongo-position but really, i don't know)
i hope you understand what i mean

[Sluggy]

Originally Posted by Blackdragon-sama

i think a quite humiliating position is with the spanker sitting and the spankee with his/her arms and head down, resting at the spankers feet, while having her/his legs spread to either side of the spankers waist

Agreed. Heh, that is particularly humiliating..

[zac]

Originally Posted by Blackdragon-sama

i don't know what it's called, but i think a quite humiliating position is with the spanker sitting and the spankee with his/her arms and head down, resting at the spankers feet, while having her/his legs spread to either side of the spankers waist

(i *think* it's called bongo-position but really, i don't know)
i hope you understand what i mean

If that is the position I think it is then I've seen it described as the "wheelbarrow" position.

[Robert]

I think that the classic OTK is the most humiliating, as it shows dominance, especially if your a lot bigger (physically) than the spanker

[RobM]

I think this as much a subjective thing as most themes within spanking.

The trouble with saying OTK is the most humiliating is that some women arn't too upset by being spanked like that, especially if they were spanked as children often in that position, its kind of the standard pose. Personally I think that for most women the legs up position (also called Diaper - eww) is going to be the most embaressing due to the exposure and nudity, its also not a very dignified position. The bongo position (Wheelbarrow sounds good to me) is... a bit ridiculous at times, a spankee may find it just too awkward and unusual to take seriously.

One story I will relate of a spanking experiance I had a few years ago at a club was one woman not bothered by either OTK or 'legs up' but says the punishment I gave her was quite humilating because rather than being punished like a child as she was used to, it was a more adult punishment. I gave her one of my rare canings - rare, not because I don't often think its deserved, but because I'm worried about knocking a person in the kidneys while I swing it - and she found it the most humiliating having to put her palms flat on a table and count the strokes. For all the OTK punishments she recieved, often involving locked legs and wrists held it was more embaressing to be caned and have to hold herself in position, not allowed to dodge or fight. Its not even like she was exposed much, panties tucked just under her bottom.

It all depends, for those who don't like being treated like children OTK is just as bad as all the rest - for those for whom childhood holds no fear or embaressment and who are comfortable with nudity then in my experiance sneakily administering a punishment that actually suits thier adult personality can be more humiliating. No chance of hiding within a persona there.

tl;dr I think 'legs up' because more people are embaressed by nudity than helplessness.

[FREAK]

we tried out the bongo position for a few times but in my opinion it isn't a humiliating but a sexy position especially when being nude. when I get spanked in this position it hurts very little compared to other positions.
I so hate legs up XD I can't even enjoy the spanking in this position because I just can't stand it. I don't know why. It isn't humiliating nor sexy, it's just awkward *urghs*
I agree with you RobM: counting is also very humiliating. Especially when your voice sounds whinier with every number your counting ._.

[KingTamaki]

The "diaper" position is really humiliating.. Very exposed.
I also think laying on your stomach and having your hips propped up on a lot of pillows to expose yourself more is embarassing.
And I definitely agree with counting!

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