Spanking therapy

[Klau28]

I would be very curious if there is anyone here who has sought help from an expert / therapist for some kind of addiction or laziness to be more motivated with spanking therapy?

What does this look like?
That would be your main goal to improve your situation, but then you won’t get caught (which is a fetish). Thus the "sick" never heals.
You always make a small mistake to beat ...

or is this just for those who don’t like spanking?

So whoever has this fetish, shouldn’t go to a therapist?

[Veronica412]

Hi there. Saw your question scrolling on here. I actually went once to a spanking therapy. I am now 20 (f), but then I was 17. I know it sounds stupid because I am not 18. But in this country you are allowed to have intercourse since 16, so basically i was old enough. Btw this is kind of a longer story so if you dont want to read just stop

To begin with it wasnt my decision but my mom. She thought that this would solve my problems. I used to be really anti social, staying home, playing video games, getting bad grades etc. So she found on facebook this theraphy by spanking and thought that might help me. Of course I didnt say yes, but it wouldnt matter.

Fast forward it got to the day when I went, I think it was tuesday or wednesday, something there. We got to the place, everything seemed normal. Normal white and wooden reception, a really nice lady there and other pacients. Nothing odd. After some time I got in and there is when it became strange. Besides all the spanking implements she had (canes, belts, crops, whips etc) she also had odd looking tables and spanking benches. My mom remained at the reception, so I was there alone. Strange enough the therapist was a He, so that didnt make things easier at all. Btw forgot to mention that at the reception while we waited we signed pappers to consent. So nothing there was ilegal or bad. The therapist greeted me with a smile and kind words. He gestured me to sit down and have a talk. Untill now nothing to bad. He asked me questions related to myself like name age why I am there etc. We talked for 20 to 30 minutes i think. He was a really goos guy to talk to, he knew how to listen, approve and argue the idea. Overall a good therapist, but after the talk he asked if i know how he does therapy and if i am familiar with spanking. I said yes and then he proceeded and asked me a few questions related to that. If i got spanked, how i got spanked etc. After 10 minutes of talking about spanking he told me that he is going to spank me bare bottom over his lap. This sounded horrible at the time and my heart sunk. I agreed and he told me to stand up. He took a sit and took me over his lap. Undressed me and rest his hands on my back. We were on a couch so i was pretty comfortable, although staying with my bare bottom in the air wasnt. He then asked if I am ready and begin easy, he asked me to rate how hard it is and stuff like that. Apparently every individual feels the spankings differently so he had to do a little test. After thr test he said that we can begin. He started spanking me, it was a slow and hard rythm. It stung with every spank he gave, but besides that he also started talking to me and asking me questions like: are you going to change that? Do you understand that is bad? What are you going to do from now on? At first I could deal with it but after slme time it became harder and harder. I started sobbing and answering questions was pretty hard. After i think 20 minutes of spanking me he said i am going to get 15 cane strokes. I am going to count each one and say that i will change... to be honest every fricking hit hurt like hell.

Fast forwars because this is already long and boring i had red strip marks on my ass for the following week that started fading.. i went to another 7 or 8 appointments each week. They started developing into harder ones and more harder ones.

Conclusion, I dont know how much it helped me but i can assure you it is both embarassing and hurtful

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Hi there. Saw your question scrolling on here. I actually went once to a spanking therapy. I am now 20 (f), but then I was 17. I know it sounds stupid because I am not 18. But in this country you are allowed to have intercourse since 16, so basically i was old enough. Btw this is kind of a longer story so if you dont want to read just stop

To begin with it wasnt my decision but my mom. She thought that this would solve my problems. I used to be really anti social, staying home, playing video games, getting bad grades etc. So she found on facebook this theraphy by spanking and thought that might help me. Of course I didnt say yes, but it wouldnt matter.

Fast forward it got to the day when I went, I think it was tuesday or wednesday, something there. We got to the place, everything seemed normal. Normal white and wooden reception, a really nice lady there and other pacients. Nothing odd. After some time I got in and there is when it became strange. Besides all the spanking implements she had (canes, belts, crops, whips etc) she also had odd looking tables and spanking benches. My mom remained at the reception, so I was there alone. Strange enough the therapist was a He, so that didnt make things easier at all. Btw forgot to mention that at the reception while we waited we signed pappers to consent. So nothing there was ilegal or bad. The therapist greeted me with a smile and kind words. He gestured me to sit down and have a talk. Untill now nothing to bad. He asked me questions related to myself like name age why I am there etc. We talked for 20 to 30 minutes i think. He was a really goos guy to talk to, he knew how to listen, approve and argue the idea. Overall a good therapist, but after the talk he asked if i know how he does therapy and if i am familiar with spanking. I said yes and then he proceeded and asked me a few questions related to that. If i got spanked, how i got spanked etc. After 10 minutes of talking about spanking he told me that he is going to spank me bare bottom over his lap. This sounded horrible at the time and my heart sunk. I agreed and he told me to stand up. He took a sit and took me over his lap. Undressed me and rest his hands on my back. We were on a couch so i was pretty comfortable, although staying with my bare bottom in the air wasnt. He then asked if I am ready and begin easy, he asked me to rate how hard it is and stuff like that. Apparently every individual feels the spankings differently so he had to do a little test. After thr test he said that we can begin. He started spanking me, it was a slow and hard rythm. It stung with every spank he gave, but besides that he also started talking to me and asking me questions like: are you going to change that? Do you understand that is bad? What are you going to do from now on? At first I could deal with it but after slme time it became harder and harder. I started sobbing and answering questions was pretty hard. After i think 20 minutes of spanking me he said i am going to get 15 cane strokes. I am going to count each one and say that i will change... to be honest every fricking hit hurt like hell.

Fast forwars because this is already long and boring i had red strip marks on my ass for the following week that started fading.. i went to another 7 or 8 appointments each week. They started developing into harder ones and more harder ones.

Conclusion, I dont know how much it helped me but i can assure you it is both embarassing and hurtful

[Furniture]

Originally Posted by Veronica412

Fast forwars because this is already long and boring i had red strip marks on my ass for the following week that started fading.. i went to another 7 or 8 appointments each week. They started developing into harder ones and more harder ones.

Conclusion, I dont know how much it helped me but i can assure you it is both embarassing and hurtful

Veronica I am awfully curious! If you dont mind me asking, how long did you attend this place?

I imagine it was very hurtful, do you feel that this had much of an impact on your allure to spankings now?

If Im overstepping I am sorry, but this has shocked and amazed me at the same time. Sorry to hear you got sent to such a place!

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To reply to the main thread, I sometimes ask for exactly this from my lover. A spanking with no fetish or play, just something and bring me back to myself. I used to work a very high-stress job where I managed a small team, and I felt so deeply unhappy that my days off I would feel beyond depressed.

We worked a little something into our week which was a spanking that would clear my mind and help me focus. It strictly wasnt a punishment, and the whole thing felt different from our play-spankings. The whole time my lover would give me words of encouragement about myself, my job and our life and asking about how I felt about my week and how I had performed.

For me, who tended to bottle my feelings up, that subspace let me finally let out my anger and my tears and be in a really safe place to do so. The firm rhythm of a spanking was kind of exactly the ticket for me. Thered be no sex after, not to be crass, but if youre not mentally horny going into something like this, its easy to keep that separate.

Even if your body physically reacts, its all it is, and its simple to take a break, refresh and come back into it - or call it done. I think a fetishist could still reach out for this kind of therapy, but all the usual talks of consent and communication come into play.

[Veronica412]

Originally Posted by Furniture

Veronica I am awfully curious! If you dont mind me asking, how long did you attend this place?

I imagine it was very hurtful, do you feel that this had much of an impact on your allure to spankings now?

If Im overstepping I am sorry, but this has shocked and amazed me at the same time. Sorry to hear you got sent to such a place![color="red"]

Hi, no worries. I don't mind. I think I went for another 2 months, something like that.

The appointments were really hurtful. First one as i said was 20 minutes of bare bottom hand spanking and 15 cane strokes, but the others started to be more intense like 100 belts or some stuff like that. Of course is not exagerated, but for a 17 year old it is. What helped me was that I already got spanked at home regularly, about 2 times a week, so this was just another time.

It didn't had much impact on how I view spankings now. I like them and I am turned on by them. I am kind of a masochist, so while i am crying and kicking my legs I am also very wet. It is hard to explain but i hope you understand.

If you have anymore questions feel free to DM me or ask here

[Furniture]

I never got caned growing up, and now its absolutely one of my school-fantasy-favourites so for me an institution like this might be right up my street

We are definitely not alone in crying and kicking whilst being wet during a spanking.

Thanks for your story!

[Morrgann]

Hi Veronica,

I'm Morgan and I'm an 18 year old girl who lives at home. My parents still spank me as discipline. I just got a hard bare bottom spanking with a belt from my mom a month ago. Since my 18th birthday in March I've gotten seven spankings. But I also don't feel like I'm getting spanked enough, that's why I act like a brat half my age most of the time.

When you talk about crying and kicking and stuff, I do that, too. And I get really turned on, as well. I'm so wet during a spanking even if it is my mom or dad. It's not them. It's the spanking.

I wish that I knew of a place like this that you're talking about. As it is, I'm thinking about asking the mom of a friend who I know also gets spanked if I can get spankings from her once in a while. At least then I wouldn't have to feel guilty about being turned on.

[avatarjay]

Wow. I hope we have this kind of program here.

[GoodLifeMickey]

I suppose it is how you define spanking therapy? I have certainly felt a lot better after seeing disciplinarians in the UK who don't RP so therefore are a form of therapy.