Should I spank her again ?

[Hawke]

I like to go to fetish parties. A couple of weeks ago I went to one and there was this gorgeous creature dressed in a short black dress and long legs. She wore a mask. She actually came over to me and started a converstation. It ended in my turning her over my knee and giving her a very lengthy and soundly administered public spanking. She bucked, and fluttered her legs and let out squeals and crys. When it was over she had tears in her eyes and a slight smile. She loved it. During the course of the party, I spanked her three times. After the last spanking, she removed her mask. She was my youngest cousin. The wild one. I had told her about the fetish parties, including about my going to this one. We had a talk. She has long had a need to be spanked. So she came to the party knowing she could get me to spank her. She still wants to be spanked from time to time. Should I spank her again?

[brokenvalve]

Well, I mean if she wants it then why not? It seems that you both don't mind and she seems to enjoy it just as much as you might. If she did not object then... But maybe she didn't object because she knew it was you. You should ask her what she wants to do I guess, and if she would have objected if it was not you. Base your decision based on her want, whether it be from a family member, or the act itself. It could possibly be that she just wants more interaction with a family member. Words to the wise, in my opinion.

-- BrokenValve, studied psychology for 3 years.

[Hawke]

I probably will spank her again, I understand her need, but it can only be spanking, nothing else.

[brokenvalve]

Well, I am glad that I could help someone else enjoy life just a little bit more. You and your sister should get along quite well from this, as she would look up to you as someone she can trust to do things for her that would seem out of the ordinary for a normal person. She may even feel more secure because of the whole ordeal. Good Luck, Friend.

-- BrokenValve

[Hawke]

broken valve. You seem to have a lot of insight in this. Are you a boy or a girl?

[RobM]

Originally Posted by brokenvalve

You and your sister should

Not THAT much insight.

[brokenvalve]

Male, and sorry for the mismeantioning, as you clearly said she was your cousin and not your sister.

[ellipsis39]

My first spanking experiences with someone other than my grandmother (who raised me) were with cousins. I have chatted with others who also said their first "adventures" were with cousins. I was quite young (eight) when I was first spanked by a male cousin, and yet that left an indelible impression on me that has lasted to this day.

The problem was, however, that I continued this spanking relationship with him as the top and me as the bottom for several years, all in what we convinced ourselves was just fun and "play," but of course it was sexual and inevitably it turned blatantly so. This scared me to death, because I thought that the outcome would be incest and that I would be damned to hell for eternity. Yes, I acrtually thought that way when I was younger!

The result was that no matter how much I enjoyed having my cousin spank me, I had to stop the relationship. I never saw the spankings as being morally wrong, but I did the sex. If you accept the premise that spanking is sexual in nature, eventually I think you get to the point where sex is the inevitable culmination of a spanking relationship. If that is not something you want to happen, whether for moral, ethical, or other reasons, then you had better stop the relationship sooner than later.

[Hawke]

I spanked her yesterday, and then we took a long walk and had a long talk. It can only be an over the knee, hand spanking, and a hug and nothing else.

[Ryuzaki L]

Ellipsis, why INCEST? With your brother, I get it, but with a cousin?
Is sex with a cousin not allowed where you come from?
I thought it was okay in most countries and thus nothing to worry about with having sexual spankings.